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Monday, August 31, 2009 @ 8:47 PM
yeap here it is  Will be off to hong kong! i promise i will update about the trip after i come back provided the plane don't crash! Setting off at 9 tonight! woooooooooooooooooooooooohooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo! Bye Singapore Sunday, August 23, 2009 @ 11:26 PM
Holding on. The thought of it just feel like thousands of ants crawling all over my heart , each taking a bite before they leave. Could this be the end? or is it another door opening because of this door closing? This thoughts set me ponder upon and set me into a state of unknown to me before. Is it you? or is it just me? Sometimes i really wish i am just a Dove flying around.  Friday, August 21, 2009 @ 8:13 AM
3 WORDS EXAM IS OVER! :))))))))))))))))) Tuesday, August 18, 2009 @ 8:51 PM
A significant post by Baya Credit to Mr juayyy zi haooo! People! lets share the wisdom together! First of all , this post is dedicated to all hooligans in Singapore. Note, I used the word 'Hooligans' instead of gangster. If u do not know the diffference. Go check out the dictionary. Theres a lot of gangsters/mafia in the world. In Singapore? Maybe not. Like the post title suggest, I guess I need not elaborate further. Its self explanatory. Before u continue, This 'MIGHT' be a long post, depending on how u look at it. And I believe it will make absolute sense to everyone who reads it. This is something I learn quite sometime ago. However for wadever reasons I will not state and it doesnt matters, NOW I will share it with everyone. And 'HOPEFULLY' it would educate most of my 'target market segment' Before I begin, there is something that needs to be explained even it might not be scientifically proven, but hopefully u would understand the meaning within. You have probably heard the idea that everything happens for a reason. It is a great example of what can be called "useful lies." Everything happens for a reason? What nonsense! On the other hand, what a great idea! Whatever your religious or philosophical background, this is a belief that you can use, even if it isn't true. There is no way to prove that everything happens for a reason. In fact, when you think about some of the truly terrible things that happen to people, it seems almost rude to even suggest it at times. But as a personal belief, it can do WONDERS for your outlook on life. For example, suppose you lost your job. There must be a reason, so you start looking for one. Soon you find your "true purpose" in life, get a better job, and have more happiness. Without the belief that things happen for a reason, people sometimes are just devastated by such "bad luck," and do nothing to better their lives, right? If u believe that wadever negative things that happens to you, on ur life, ur spouse BECAUSE OF BAD LUCK. YOU WILL NEVER IMPROVE. ! Lying To Children (And Ourselves) Notice that I put "true purpose" in quotation marks above. Why? Because this is another idea that may be nonsense, but is useful. It gives life more meaning, and so may lead to more happiness. It is like telling a child that he can be anything he wants to be. What nonsense! This is easily proven false. I won't even give examples here, because you can think of many reasons why some people will never be able to do some things. On the other hand, the general idea can be very motivating. If a child is told instead that there are only some things she can do, she'll likely start ruling out many of the things she really might be able to do. BELIEVE IT OR NOT The belief can be false and still work,but even more interesting is the fact that it doesn't even have to be a belief. In other words, you may actually think that the idea "anything is possible" is nonsense, and yet still use it. Think of it as an "operating principle." Act as though anything is possible and you'll find more possibilities in life than if act on more skeptical principles. I recently read a true story about Bill Harris, the founder of the Centerpointe Institute, one of the bigger online distributors of motivational CDs. When his company was young, he was sued for a million dollars. Although the lawsuit was frivolous, it was going to take a lot of money to defend his company - money he didn't have. Did this happen for some higher reason? I doubt it. Harris, however, seems to believe that everything happens for a reason, or at least he acts as if this is true. As a result, his reaction was to sit down and list sixty possible benefits of being sued, starting with "I can learn about the legal system." He says that every one of the benefits on his list came true, and today the company is bigger and better than ever. That's the power of a good idea. You can use good ideas like good tools. Pick them up and set them down (and pick up a better one) as necessary. You don't have to cling to them as some revealed "truth" to get the value. But if you really do believe that everything happens for a reason, and my concept of "useful lies" has shaken your faith, just assume that this has happened for some good reason. These are what I call "useful lies." It isn't even about whether they are true or not (maybe it's actually true that everything happens for a reason). These kinds of beliefs are generally impossible to prove (hence the designation of "lies"), and often blatantly silly, but they organize one's thinking in a way that leads to more productive outcomes. If you believe that you were "meant" to be a writer, for example, you won't get discouraged from that writing career as easily as someone who just "gives it a try." Let me state another example in layman terms that happen during our daily life, Lets assume one fine afternoon, u are feeling very bored. U happen to be lying on ur bed and staring at the ceiling. And suddenly ur phone rings. U saw a msg from ur bf/gf/best friend. 'HEY WAD U DOING'? Reply: Doing nothing Have u ever asked why ?! First of all, u are doing something. Lying on ur bed and staring at the ceiling is doing something. EVEN when u are asleep u are doing something. And obviously, u are sleeping. That is why the word is created in the first place. AND AGAIN, the reason is stated right from the start. Why are u 'doing nothing' as u proclaim it to be though u are lying on ur bed and staring at the ceiling. The reason is plainly because U ARE BORED !!! Do u get it now ???? The next part of today's post I'm gonna touch on is THE SIX NEEDS OF HUMAN ! [ALL OF THEM ARE IMPORTANT AND CRUCIAL IN SHAPING A PERSON IN HIS LIFE] ITS PROVEN !!! To summarise, 1.Certainty/Comfort. We all want comfort. And much of this comfort comes from certainty. Of course there is no ABSOLUTE certainty, but we want certainty the car will start, the water will flow from the tap when we turn it on and the currency we use will hold its value. [Self Explanatory] 2.Variety. At the same time we want certainty, we also crave variety. Paradoxically, there needs to be enough UNcertainty to provide spice and adventure in our lives. [Do u wanna go to school/work, go back home finish up ur assignments, go to sleep and repeat it the next day FOR LIFE???] 3.Significance. Deep down, we all want to be important. We want our life to have meaning and significance. I can imagine no worse a death than to think my life didn't matter. [ AND THIS IS THE POINT I WANNA TOUCH ON TODAY, WILL ELABORATE FURTHER LATER] 4.Connection/Love. It would be hard to argue against the need for love. We want to feel part of a community. We want to be cared for and cared about. [Self Explanatory] 5.Growth. There could be some people who say they don't want to grow, but I think they're simply fearful of doing so—or perhaps NOT doing so. To become better, to improve our skills, to stretch and excel may be more evident in some than others, but it's there. [eg, do u feel good when u teach ur lil siblings something they do not know] 6.Contribution. The desire to contribute something of value—to help others, to make the world a better place than we found it is in all of us. [eg, do u feel good when u give 10 dollars to a beggar without limbs] Now that u know all the six 'NEEDS' [not wants] of a human,, Do take sometime to process it. I can finally go straight to the point Question: WHY DO some people choose to be a hooligan den to live their lives to be a successful someone.? ANSWER: SIGNIFICANCE/IMPORTANCE. They wanna feel important, they wanna let people know that they exist, They wanna feel significant 'RIGHT AWAY' Remember 'RIGHT AWAY' is the key word here. First and foremost, ask urself. How will or how can someone make themself significant or important to others ? Some of the examples: Becoming a super famous and rich man, Becoming a famous singer, a famous dancer/ beat boxer, artist, lawyer, doctor, entrupreuner, and so on..... Again, look again at all the examples I have just listed. All of them TAKES TIME TO fulfill. And some people wants it right away. They want it to be significant at a younger age and sacrifice/ruin their future for it. Lets say someone takes a GUN and point it at ur head. IMMeDIateLY, THAT someone becomes significant in ur life. AM I right ? Obviously, YES. Its a gun he is holding, its ur head he is pointing the gun at, SO, does that explains why do some people wants to be a hooligans instead of creating, shaping their future into something brighht, something of value, something their family would be proud of . In conclusion, this choice is made by the stupidest person in the world. If anyone who can understand my point will agree with me. I GUESS I DO NOT HAVE TO ELABORATE FURTHER. Up till this point if u still do not understand I do not know what to say. But to tell u, U have wasted 15 min of ur life reading this dumbass useless post. =D And after spending one hour of my time typing this, I really hope readers of this post will understand. And hopefull it does benefit u in someway or another. TATA SIS AND BROS. All comments would be entertained, good or bad =D Friday, August 14, 2009 @ 7:57 PM
Don't give up  There are so many things in the moment that is pressing down on my neck and is causing all the breathlessness within me. Recently, i had a series of dream which i think is bad. Dream somehow reflects upon what is constantly in our mind-the subconscious mind. Life isn't as colorful as how it was back then.It is quite sad how things actually turn out to be this way. Have you ever noticed that anybody driving slower than you is an idiot, and anyone going faster than you is a maniac? no? think again :) Mum and Dad don't really from now onwards i will try my utmost ability to help out to overcome this crisis together . There is 3 word that i have long to tell the both of you and that is i love you :/ Labels: Tired Tuesday, August 4, 2009 @ 7:30 PM
9 more days oh my god today was suppose to be my last tutorial and lecture yet i am at home sleeping..thanks to my phone it turned silent mode without me activating it . It is shitty for being the waking-people-up devices...pisssssed ttm |
