Tuesday, October 6, 2009 @ 6:28 AM
Bro, Let time be the healer for you

May he live in peace up there
I really hope my dear bro is all right and definitely, we will always be there for you.
Personally me myself i felt that life is really unpredictable and it is only when you lose something, you begin to realize how you really enjoyed having it there, and how much you really needed / wanted it.
He told me that it happens too suddenly, and he never get a chance to tell him how much he mean to him. It really hurts a lot.
However what i want to tell him is that .Try to Remember something positive. Even if the events leading up to the death were negative, make an effort to remember a happier time.
Don’t forget the other people in your life who lost this special person too. They really need you and you need them. Provide them with your valuable support and understanding with your grief.
Don’t let grieving consume you. Mourning is a natural part of healing and moving on, but you can’t let yourself drown in it.
Move forward! No matter how difficult. Find the strength, the courage and the resolve to get on with your life. Deep down, i believe your father would want just only that for now.